The Chinese New Year is coming soon, and I believe that many singles will have to face pressure from their families to get married. Regardless of whether you are willing to find a partner or not, you may be forced to go on a blind date by your family members when you return home. So how should you respond correctly when you are forced to go on a blind date during the Chinese New Year?
1. Refuse to go on a blind date
Everyone is unwilling There are many reasons for going on a blind date, such as finding a partner but not being satisfied at home, being single but yearning for free love, not liking the utilitarian nature of blind dates, etc.
If you are very repelled by this matter in your heart, you can communicate with your family. After all, you are looking for a partner, not them. Tell them whatever you think, whether you don't like the blind date itself, you have someone you like, or you don't want to fall in love, and try to get your family's understanding.
2. Your family insists on letting you go on a blind date
① If your parents have already met each other and think that they are in good condition , in order not to disgrace your parents, you should go and see it, at least their taste will not be too bad.
The first impression is very important when going on a blind date. If you are determined not to develop a relationship with the person you are dating, you can dress yourself up in an unflattering way, so that he or she will definitely not fall in love with you. Instead, dress yourself up.
If you like the other person, pay attention to the topics he likes when chatting. On the contrary, talk about the topics you like.
② If your parents have not met each other yet, but you have only heard from others that the conditions are good, and you are not willing to go on a blind date, then you can discuss with your parents and ask them to help you meet each other first. See if she meets your criteria for choosing a mate.
3. How to adjust your mentality
Many people have a strong purpose in dating. Boys want to Looking for a man to raise children, girls want to find someone who owns a car and a house. Some people worry about what to do if they can't get along with their blind date, or what to do if they can't get along with each other after getting married. I can only say that you are overthinking. Blind date is a process of mutual selection, and it cannot be decided by meeting once or twice.
So I say, mentality is very important. First, a successful blind date does not mean that you must get married or have a relationship. Second, a failed blind date does not mean that you are too bad. It may just be that both parties are not suitable. Third, the key to a successful blind date is your mentality. If we have a bad attitude, we will become a cabbage in the eyes of others, allowing others to pick and choose, and we may even be ridiculed.
The true meaning of blind date is to help you solve your urgent needs when you can’t find any suitable partner around you, and bring you the partner who is most likely to suit you.
If you find that the quality of your blind dates is very poor, then you should reflect on whether your requirements are too high. The conditions for blind dates are based on your own economic level and family conditions. It is impossible to meet someone with a monthly salary of several thousand. arriveA blind date with a monthly salary of one million, unless your family is very rich.
We can treat the blind date as an ordinary meeting. If we can chat, we can try it. If we can’t, we can change to the next one. There is no need to be too anxious. After all, fate cannot be forced. If it happens to suit you, wouldn’t it be very profitable?
