Everyone likes the feeling of surprise after receiving a red envelope. Even if the red envelope is only a few yuan or even a few cents, it will bring people a pleasant feeling. It stands to reason that when boys send WeChat red envelopes to girls, girls will be very happy, but the reality is that girls often do not accept the WeChat red envelopes from boys, and may even express disgust at this behavior. So what does it mean for girls not to accept WeChat red envelopes from boys? Here are three main reasons:
1. Your red envelope is too small
Yes, you need to know that the maximum amount of a WeChat red envelope is only 200. This number is not particularly moving in any way. I remember when the red envelope function was first launched, if you sent someone 5 yuan 2 or 3 yuan 8, you would get a grateful thank you or an emoticon of kneeling down to the boss.
As the act of sending red envelopes becomes more and more popular, it also indicates that people are becoming less and less interested in the concept of red envelopes. In the past, 5 yuan 2 could impress her for a short time, but now it may be necessary to directly transfer 520 yuan to achieve the same effect. Social rolls, even if you give out red envelopes, they will roll you to death. If your balance does not reach a certain level, trying to impress girls with red envelopes is a very wrong thing in itself.
2. There is no sincerity in giving red envelopes
For many girls who have a good career, she has to It's really not the boys who send her red envelopes. She gets her own money every day, and she doesn't need to rely on so-called red envelopes to improve her life. This kind of girl doesn't particularly value money. She values ??the more precious things behind money: your intention, your energy, and your time.
She may not want a boy to send her a WeChat red envelope, but she will be moved by the bouquet of flowers you bought.
She may not want boys to send her WeChat red envelopes, but she likes the way you look full every time you drive to pick her up from get off work.
She may not want boys to send her WeChat red envelopes, but she wants you to spend more time with her.
It’s that simple...
3. She has no reason to receive red envelopes
You have to know that giving a red envelope to a girl and keeping it, and then feeling very happy, is actually a very luxurious thing for people nowadays. There is no reason for a girl to accept your red envelope, even if she wants to accept it. Imagine that you send a red envelope to a girl and she collects it immediately. Then what? You sent her a red envelope, but what did she pay for you? Does she dare to accept this red envelope? Isn't she afraid that you will impose conditions on her?
So when you send a red envelope to a girl, you must pay attention to giving her a reason. This is very important. For example, let me list a few for you:
For a girl’s birthday on March 14th, you can send a 31.4 message to wish her a happy birthday and make an appointment with her.Come out;
In this traditional Western festival of 520, you send a girl a 52, or transfer 520. As long as she dares to accept it, she must give you a passionate kiss;
New Year's Day Or on any traditional festival, just send a girl a small red envelope on WeChat to express happy holidays, instead of sending group text messages.
Generally speaking, before you have established a relationship with a girl, sending red envelopes is still not encouraged. Because money is full of the smell of copper (laughing)~~ But on some special occasions (such as those listed above), you can also try to give girls a red envelope to cheer up.
Of course, if you have been reduced to a situation where you don’t know how to treat her well except sending her red envelopes, then there is definitely a problem with your emotional intelligence and ability. In this case, even if you send a big enough red envelope to a girl, your final result will be particularly tragic. . . Let’s not talk about the deeds of those red envelope bitches here.
Don’t always be obsessed with using very realistic things to directly impress girls. Your emotions, your feelings, and your firm will are the most valuable things in the world. (This is chicken soup and the truth)
