It’s a very happy thing to finally have a girlfriend. You definitely want to share this joy with your friends. But unexpectedly, she was rejected by her girlfriend. She said that she was unwilling to openly love her so early. Do you know why? What should I do if my girlfriend doesn’t want to announce her relationship?
1. Why is the girlfriend unwilling to announce the relationship?
Generally speaking, there are three reasons why your girlfriend does not want to announce the relationship:
1. The girlfriend is afraid of announcing the relationship. Romance has a bad impact
For you, announcing your relationship may be about sharing joy, but for your girlfriend, she may not think so. Maybe she is not ready for a relationship, maybe she will lose a lot of potential romantic partners after announcing the affair, maybe she is afraid that announcing the relationship will make her isolated (this is really possible in a small group of girls); maybe Your girlfriend is relatively introverted, and it is difficult for her to accept the evaluation of her in the social circle after going from not having a boyfriend to having a boyfriend.
2. Your girlfriend thinks you can’t help her
Sometimes even though you are with your girlfriend, But she actually still feels that you can't do anything about it, because she cares about other people's opinions and is afraid that after she announces her relationship with you, someone will judge her relationship and say, "How did you find such a boyfriend!" This will make you uncomfortable. My girlfriend felt very embarrassed. In this case, your girlfriend may choose you because she is moved by your sincerity, not because of how much she likes you. In other words, she is not attracted to you yet.
3. Your girlfriend eats from the bowl and looks at the pot.
Even if a girl wants to be your girlfriend, but she is unwilling to openly have a relationship with you, it may be because She ate from the bowl and looked at the pot. Because if her other suitors find out that she is single after she makes her relationship public, then these boys will give up pursuing her, and then she will not be able to enjoy the treatment that many boys pursued her together in the past. This is what we commonly call "keeping a spare tire" or "eating tofu".
In fact, for the above situations where girlfriends are unwilling to announce their relationship, to put it bluntly, it’s just that your girlfriend doesn’t love you enough, so she finds so many excuses not to announce her relationship. So what should you do as a boy?
2. What should you do if your girlfriend doesn’t want to announce your relationship?
If your girlfriend doesn’t want to announce your relationship, that’s not the case. Because of some objective reasons (for example, if you have a relationship during school, you may be asked by your parents, if you have a relationship in the office, you may be fired, if you have signed a contract with the company, for example, celebrities and Internet celebrities cannot have relationships), then you can take the following methods:
1 , Forced/pseudo-forced exposure
That is, exposing your relationship, showing off your happiness on social media, Weibo and other platforms, leaving your girlfriend with no way out, but there are certain risks. Fake strongExposure, that is, buying a few friends and classmates, pretending to meet the two of you holding hands somewhere, etc. It is such a natural exposure, but you avoid the risk.
2. Tough attitude
As a shadow boyfriend, you directly stated that you are unwilling and would rather not do it. Male and female friends, nor shadow boyfriends. When expressing this to the woman, you need to be upright, uncompromising, and not afraid of breaking up. Focus on showing your masculine temperament, and don't compromise under any of the woman's emotions (begging, anger, cuteness, etc.). This method is also a way to verify whether the woman really loves you. If the woman is unwilling, then it means she has two possible mentalities:
She would rather succumb to the pressure of public opinion than be with you.
The woman also wants to continue to accept investment from many men.
No matter what form she is in, such a girl is not worthy of your cherishment. Don't worry about not being able to find a girlfriend and being conservative. Men's value begins to develop rapidly in middle age. Your future is far brighter than theirs. I hope you can seize the happiness that truly belongs to you.
