Many boys don’t know that there are actually many reasons for pursuing girls. If boys can understand these principles before chasing girls, they can avoid many detours in chasing girls, allowing you to easily catch the girl you like. Below I will share with you the principles you must understand when chasing girls. These are all useful information. I hope you can collect them.
1. A girl only allows you to chase her if she likes you
Many girls have not discovered this problem themselves, and they all think that because you are good to her, she likes you. In fact, the fact is: she likes you, so she gives you the opportunity to be nice to her. Then, in the process of getting along, the good impression gradually turned into liking.
Why does the person you like always reject you and can’t catch up with you no matter how hard you chase, but others can? Because she doesn't have a good impression of you at all. Others can catch up with you because the girl already has a good impression of him, and the girl is giving him a chance.
2. There is no start time or end node for chasing girls
In fact, in the process of getting along with men and women, Advancing a relationship is a perfectly normal thing to do. From strangers to good friends, one person (or two people) advances the relationship step by step, and the other person follows up the relationship step by step. Then if you want to become a couple, continue to follow the trend and slowly advance to achieve a couple relationship.
So the correct way to pursue a girl is to boil the frog in warm water and slowly advance the relationship between the two. If she doesn't want to, you can't move the relationship forward on your own. For example, if you hate someone, would you be friends with them?
Do what you should do at each stage, take it step by step slowly, and say some words appropriately to guess her thoughts, and then proceed to the next step when the relationship is serious. What should be done at each stage? Even if she's not even close to being friends, you just send her some earthy love words. Even if it's just a follow-up, it's not the way to do it. Isn't it awkward? You're not even a good friend, and you ask her to send you a selfie. Who are you? Why should she send it to you?
3. Don’t become a dog-licker when chasing girls
Dog-licker is to get someone who gives unlimited efforts. Moreover, it is beyond the scope of one's own tolerance. It is a trivial matter to sell the pot and sell the iron. It is more to overdraw the future, just to get a look back and smile. Moreover, I showed so much affection and love for her that I even moved God to tears, and then said: Look, the sky is so moved by me that it is raining.
If you have been actively promoting the relationship to love for a long time, but the girl is still standing still and has not received any active signals from her. For example, he takes the initiative to chat with you, takes the initiative to find topics during the chat, takes the initiative to invite you to dinner, and takes the initiative to call you out. Just stop doing things you think will advance the relationship because you doHe has really become a junior licking dog.
4. Confession is the end of the bargain
Have you ever considered how to confess your love to a girl after falling in love with her? . And indeed, in reality, there are many boys who confess their love and then get together directly. So someone will tell you: A boy takes the initiative to confess his feelings without being embarrassed. If he succeeds, he will make a lot of money. If he doesn't succeed, at least he has tried hard and will not regret it. In fact this is an ideal situation.
Boys like girls, and girls like boys. In this case, it doesn’t matter whether they express their feelings or not. Anyway, sooner or later they will be together. However, if a girl doesn't like you and she rejects you, then confessing more will mean the end of the ambiguous relationship. The two people used to be more or less ambiguous, and some of the sweetness in the past has disappeared, and it is difficult for her to have a close relationship with you anymore.
Because her rejection means that she does not accept you. If she has a little ambiguity with you again, she will classify herself as a scumbag. And no matter what a girl does with you, there will be a little bit of embarrassment. Even if I chase after him later, it will not be as natural and easy as before. Therefore, confession means more to end the relationship: we can achieve together and cannot be pulled down.
I emphasize one point: You must not express your feelings, and be together naturally. Without anyone's confession, the relationship will lack commitment, and it will bring a lot of insecurity to her, and she will wonder whether you are a scumbag. You can choose to have a formal, grand, and romantic confession after being together naturally.
The above are the principles that you must understand when chasing girls today and tomorrow. I hope all the boys will take a closer look and it will be very helpful for you to chase girls.
