Do you know that in most girls' views on mate selection, "humor" has always been put before "appearance". After all, being handsome can only satisfy you for a while, but long-term relationship can bring you an interesting soul all the time. They are happy. So how can boys become humorous?
1. Learn to create a sense of contrast
Serious nonsense
"True "Yes, don't drink boiled water anymore. According to scientific research, boiled water is very harmful." He paused, gave the girl enough time to think, and then continued with a serious expression: "According to scientific research, 99.9% of people who have drank boiled water. The probability of not living to be 100 years old! ”
The sense of contrast is an effect that arouses people’s emotions by creating a psychological gap. Often, even if we understand what the two things are about, we will be confused by this. The sense of difference stirs up emotions.
What you want is this effect. Say some ridiculous and unbelievable things, but pretend to be serious. Almost anyone will be defeated and made laugh by you.
Of course, all roads lead to Rome. To achieve a certain effect, the method is often not the only one. To create a sense of contrast, it is not just serious nonsense. There are many ways that can help us. Create a strong sense of contrast in the girl and make her smile knowingly, such as——
Uncharacteristically
A man who is usually very tough suddenly one day speaks softly to him My own woman said some very gentle words; the very serious and serious man actually made a face! These contrasts combined with a little less serious words can give people a very strong visual and spiritual impact.
You can even create a sense of contrast in this way -
Pretending to be pitiful
It is also a good idea for a man who is accustomed to being strong to occasionally show weakness. A great way to lighten a girl's mood.
Tip 1: Pretending to be pitiful and acting cute together are more effective. In other words, these two things must be done at the same time to ensure that girls will laugh! Because if a boy just pretends to be pitiful, girls will But if they don’t necessarily buy it, and on the contrary, if they just act cute, everyone can imagine how lethal this can be.
Tip 2: Use less. After all, you are a boy. Use it occasionally to spice up your life. If you use it every day, girls can't stand it.
2. We can talk about both elegant and vulgar topics
If a boy always talks vulgarly, then of course he is It's easy to get looked down upon, but if you keep an elegant look all the time, it's basically telling others that you are the kind of person who doesn't want to be approached by strangers, which is too boring.
Will adjust himself according to the occasion, and talk about some elegant topics when appropriateWhen talking about vulgar topics, you can also say something vulgar to make it down to earth. Such a man who can balance elegance and vulgarity will have rich personality charm, and girls will think you are more humorous.
3. Rich experience
Yes, having rich experience and knowledge is also a necessary condition for humor. , if a man wants to be humorous, he must reserve a wide range of knowledge. Otherwise, if you don’t know anything about any questions others ask you, and you look confused when talking about hot topics, how can you appear humorous in the eyes of others?
If you have little knowledge, even your mouth can tell the truth. Huaer can only attract girls in the early stages. Later, your topics and techniques will become more and more repetitive. After the girl discovers that you are really just that, your witticisms and "funny" antics are not so fun in her eyes.
And girls generally have a strong-willed mentality, especially hoping that their men will be strong. If you don’t know anything about it, she will only be filled with disappointment in her heart.
How to expand experience and knowledge is very simple:
One is to expand social interaction, and contact with nature will enrich your knowledge;
The other is to read, books It is a summary of the wisdom of the predecessors. After absorbing the wisdom of others, we can assess the situation and make witty remarks.
