Many boys are complaining that boys have always taken the initiative to chase girls. Why can’t girls take the initiative to chase boys?
In fact, many times it is not the girls who don’t take the initiative, but you. You don’t give girls the capital to actively pursue you. Here are a few ways to make girls chase you.
1. Show your own value
When chasing girls, it is very important to consciously show your own value. .
But it’s not enough to just show how good you are. After all, it’s your own good, and girls can’t understand it. So the most important thing is to make the other person feel your value, which means not only Let her see that you are excellent, and that she can benefit from feeling this excellence.
For example, if you are very good at music and can sing well, you also know that girls are all controlled by their voices, hands, and faces. As long as they are the same, you will have a halo in her heart.
Another example is that you two can play together. You especially like to try new things, and she happens to like it too, so why don’t you ask her to go out with you?
Go ice skating, rock climbing, etc. It’s exciting and can enhance interaction. It’s the best of both worlds. Ah!
These are all things you need to show. Otherwise, if you hide it in your heart, who can see it?
2. Show kindness but don’t "lick"
Many boys always think that if they like a girl, they just need to be nice to her.
As long as you are thick-skinned enough, the goddess can always catch you; if the hint fails, just kneel down and lick her, there is always a trick she likes.
But with all due respect, girls really don’t like “licking dogs”. Therefore, if you want a girl to agree to you willingly or even take the initiative to pursue you, it is necessary to learn to grasp the scale.
Showing good intentions is to let the other person know that you have a good impression of her, and at the same time to explore the other person's attitude towards you. Not "licking" is to save face for yourself, because licking dogs often end up with nothing.
Use your body and words well. Such as eyes and body movements.
For example, dare to look directly into her eyes and warm her with your eyes. Pay more attention to her needs and help her solve problems in time.
When chatting, you can better understand girls’ psychology and give positive feedback in a timely manner.
Take the initiative to establish contact with the other person, such as taking the initiative to chat with her, helping her remove the hair that fell on her shoulders, taking the initiative to put clothes on her when the weather is cold, etc.
These small gestures are enough to make a girl feel that you have a crush on her.
This first step is in place, and then observeGirls’ feedback.
If she also has a good impression of you, or thinks you are a good development target, she will not reject your contact and may even respond.
For example, if you deliberately don’t return your clothes to you, you will instead leave an opportunity to take the initiative to make an appointment to meet next time.
3. Let the other party feel the specialness
Regardless of boys or girls, I believe everyone wants to be together In the heart of the person you like, you are a unique existence.
Girls’ sensitive minds determine that they care more about this. Even if many girls like a boy, they will not pursue him rashly and would rather keep their thoughts deep in their hearts.
But if she clearly senses that you also have a crush on her, and even your kindness to her is completely different from other friends of the opposite sex, her sense of security will be greatly improved, and it will not be surprising if she takes the initiative to confess. .
A good hunter always appears in the image of his prey.
As a prey, do you also want the hunter to notice you?
So if you want girls to take the initiative to pursue you, you need to know how to release some information.
For example, you don’t like others, but only interact with them; you don’t seem to hear when other girls say they are cold, but you put clothes on them; when everyone says they are thirsty, you use the excuse to buy water. , but brought her the milk tea she liked to drink.
Such differential treatment will really give girls full confidence and security.
