If you want to know if a woman really loves you, don’t look at how nice she is to you, but how much she treats you after a quarrel. After all, a person is most real when he is angry. when.
1. There is no lover in the world who does not quarrel
When two people first get together , both sides see the advantages, there are not too many conflicts, and life is very sweet.
But as time goes by, the trivialities of life and daily necessities break the romance of love. The two people become the most familiar people, shortcomings are exposed, conflicts occur, and quarrels are inevitable.
The more familiar two people are, the more they understand each other’s pain points, and the more hurtful their words are.
Words will not hurt our bodies, but they will destroy our hearts.
Sometimes the harm caused by words is more serious than the physical pain.
When quarreling, no matter how angry you are, some things should never be said. When you quarrel, you should also consider the other person's feelings. If you are not close to someone, you can hurt them wantonly.
If a woman always says words like "breakup" and "divorce" easily, then she definitely doesn't love you. She thought it was just a casual comment, but she didn't know how much harm it would cause you.
2. The most important thing in a quarrel is attitude
When it comes to quarreling, men argue about logic. Women look at attitude.
Some people quarrel for a lifetime and never break up, while some people break up after quarreling.
Even if a woman who loves you has a bad temper when she quarrels, she will forgive you immediately after you apologize and will not hold on to the reason.
3. There is no real winner or lose in a quarrel
There is no real winner or loser in a quarrel between two people who love each other. If you lose, you will lose your feelings, and if you lose, your heart will be cold.
The love between Qian Zhongshu and Yang Jiang is envied by countless people. They know each other, love each other, and are each other's soul mates. However, such a loving couple also quarrels sometimes. The only time they quarreled was Because of the pronunciation of a word.
Yang Jiang once recalled in "The Three of Us":
"Zhong Shu and I once had a quarrel on the ship going abroad. The reason was just over the French word 'bon' pronunciation. I said his accent had a local accent, but he refused to accept it and said a lot of hurtful words." Later, they found a French lady on the same ship who could speak English to arbitrate, and Qian Zhongshu lost. , very unhappy.
Later, Mr. Yang Jiang felt that it was boring to argue about a rule that could not change the pronunciation, so the twoAfter people discuss and decide, they may all disagree in the future and there is no need to seek consensus.
"Everyone has a different opinion, no need to seek consensus" is respect for each other. It is impossible for people to be exactly the same. No one can ask others to obey their own thoughts. The same is true for lovers.
What is true love? It means crying in my heart and holding an umbrella for you in my hand.
Qian Zhongshu once said: "The quarrel between husband and wife is the cutest war in the world, just like the two blades of a pair of scissors. You see them cutting each other back and forth, but they will never hurt each other. , after fighting for three hundred rounds, they were at peace with each other.”
True love cannot be broken up because it is unwilling to hurt the other person. .
It’s not that loving couples don’t quarrel, but they never break up no matter how much they quarrel.
Two people are full of love for each other. You understand each other's little emotions, and the other person understands your difficulties. They tolerate and understand each other.
