Fighting is an inevitable problem that couples will encounter, and sometimes it may lead to tension in the relationship or even breakup. If you find yourself blocked by your girlfriend after an argument, it can be a frustrating and helpless feeling for a guy. However, how should we respond to such a situation? Suggestions will be given below from several aspects.
1. Think calmly
When you find out that you have been blocked by your girlfriend, the first thing you need to do is to calm down. Don't rush into action or make any decisions. The emotions after a quarrel often make people lose their minds and make wrong choices. So, before thinking calmly, relax and calm yourself down.
2. Reflect on your own problems
Quarrels often occur because of conflicts and problems between the two parties. Since your girlfriend chooses to block you, it must be that she is dissatisfied with you or thinks there is something wrong with you. At this time, you need to reflect on whether there are any problems with yourself. Think about anything she said or did during a recent argument that made her unhappy. If so, then you need to admit your mistake and proactively apologize to her.
3. Give the other person some time and space
When your girlfriend blocks you, it means that she needs some time and space to calm down. At this time, you should respect her choice and give her some time and space. Don't call, text or go to her frequently. Believe me, appropriate distance will allow both parties to think better.
4. Take the initiative to communicate
After giving the other party some time and space, you can take the initiative to communicate with your girlfriend. However, before communicating, you need to make sure you have calmed down and are patient and understanding. In communication, you can express your own opinions and ideas, but you should also listen to the other person's opinions and feelings. Through sincere communication, both parties can better understand each other and find solutions to problems.
5. Re-establish trust
Being blocked after a fight may be because your girlfriend has lost trust in you. So, before re-establishing a relationship, you need to work on restoring the other person's trust in you. It takes time and action to demonstrate your sincerity and change. Through positive actions, such as taking the initiative to care about the other person, respecting the other person's feelings, solving problems, etc., you can gradually win her trust.
6. Seek third-party help
If none of the above methods can solve the problem, or you feel that you are unable to cope with the current situation, you may consider seeking third-party help. This could be a trusted friend, family member, or professional counselor. They can give you some advice and support to help you deal with the problem better.
Being blocked by your girlfriend after a fight can be frustrating and helpless, but we can’t give up. Through calm thinking and reflectionBy dealing with our own problems, giving each other time and space, proactively communicating, re-establishing trust, and seeking help from a third party, we have the opportunity to repair the relationship and regain the trust and love of our girlfriend.
