The most critical factors in love are: trust + intimacy, and the key to caring for a relationship is to maintain these two states, and couples who do not maintain it well (for example, some long-distance relationships will gradually lose intimacy) often Love gaps will arise, leading to disagreements and conflicts between couples!
People who truly love each other will know how to cherish and tolerate. The way to maintain a good relationship or marriage is to never touch When it comes to the bottom line of love, if there is a problem with these four points, the relationship will be prone to trouble.
1. Questioning your lover
One of the most important factors in love is trust, which is obviously unnecessary Doubtful, if there is always doubt, distrust, deception, and lies between lovers, then this relationship is destined to be full of unknowns and dangers.
In love, don’t deceive the other person, and don’t doubt the other person. Only by treating each other sincerely can you get true love. Questioning your lover’s behavior is obviously an intolerable behavior in love.
2. Disrespecting each other
Respect is not only the way for lovers to get along, but also the basic principle for getting along with each other! If your girlfriend always nags or complains about her boyfriend, My friend is incompetent, timid, and poor... The boyfriend always jokes that his girlfriend is ugly, princess sick, and willful...
Couples who don’t respect each other, no matter how much they love each other, will sooner or later be criticized by each other’s words Wounded! The invisible blade is the most deadly, and malicious words without malice are often the cause of stimulating emotions.
3. Hold on to the pigtails
People who are obsessed with the past often cannot truly embrace the future. . Some girls always like to keep a small notebook and complain about all the misdeeds of their boyfriends. However, such a habit of complaining will only make your boyfriend feel further away from you.
If it is a repeated offender, there is nothing wrong with it, but if it is mentioned once and every time, this kind of mentality of holding on to pigtails will make people uncomfortable, whether it is a boy or a girl.
4. Run away from problems
After couples or couples get together, they need to share the joys and sorrows. Awareness and spirit, you cannot just leave it to the other party to deal with every time you encounter a problem, and then run away on your own.
This habit of escaping when encountering problems will make your partner feel insecure. Today you can escape for a small thing, but if you encounter a big thing tomorrow, how will you behave? Such behavior It is obviously the bottom line that cannot be touched in love.
