The circle of friends is a window for us to show ourselves. After we add a girl, when the girl observes your circle of friends, she is also evaluating your value. So how to create your own circle of friends display?
1. Create a sense of security
First of all, you should be a real, three-dimensional person, not a micro-person. Business, not advertising, not three-no users. You have a job with a stable income, you have a decent life, and you have a few close friends.
Truth is the first element.
Remember not to use pixelated or boring internet images as photos.
Before you start “pretending”, please first ensure that your circle of friends has a “firework atmosphere” rather than a down-to-earth atmosphere.
2. Timely presence
No matter how good you are, if the goddess forgets this person, So what's the use? If you don't know how to start with the goddess, then use Moments to attract the other party to come to you.
Therefore, you must also maintain a certain frequency of "sense of presence" in your circle of friends to deepen your image in the other person's mind.
Brothers, special attention needs to be paid here. Asking you to brush your face is not asking you to post on Moments 24 hours a day. Doing so will only be counterproductive. Others will think that you are idle and do not have a serious job.
What you post is very important. Don’t post these 5 extremely low-profile Moments:
1. Trivial type: report everything down to the smallest details
“It looks like this today”
< p> “The subway is so crowded today”…………
Parents Zhang and the Li family would like to ask, who should I send it to? Who wants to read it?
2. Reposting: jokes, news and game screenshots
Many brothers love to do this. Everyone’s time is precious and everyone is very busy. What does it mean to swipe the screen? Block someone.
3. Micro-business
Although we despise micro-business, few people like it because micro-business makes money.
4. Chicken Soup Master
Poisonous Chicken Soup, Chicken Soup for the Soul, If you don’t convert, you are not Chinese, every Chinese has converted...
5. Negative energy
Most of today’s young people are very anxious. "It's not fair", "That's wrong", "Why is God always against me"... I vent all kinds of emotions every day, which makes me feel good, but the people in my circle of friends suffer.
3. Have a sense of value
If the sense of security and presence is to make peopleThe goddess trusts you, is familiar with you and understands you, so the sense of value mentioned here is a powerful tool that can attract the goddess.
The sense of value does not only refer to the high level of material value, but the temperament, experience and aesthetics that a man exudes from the inside out. These are the plus points.
Want to have a valuable circle of friends?
First of all, don’t show your emotions in public easily, and the same goes for your circle of friends. You must throw away all negative emotions, such as complaining about working overtime, complaining about crowded subways, etc.
Secondly, the content you post must be of high quality. It sounds like a vague concept, but the specific operations are:
Clear the theme and say something meaningful
For example, the purpose of posting a selfie is to show that you are dressed tastefully today; The purpose of skydiving is to show that you are a man who dares to challenge.
The text is short and concise
The accompanying text is concise, with the purpose of conveying more important content to girls in the shortest possible time. If you can finish in one sentence, don't be verbose. The photos should be retouched appropriately, but not overly beautified
It’s understandable that the brothers don’t know how to take photos. Don’t you want to spend time retouching the photos?
