In real life, many couples develop from friends to lovers. Maybe we were comfortable getting along as friends at first, but we didn’t expect that after we became lovers, we had many scruples. Instead of getting closer, the relationship became more and more distant. . In fact, this means that you cannot adapt to the change of identity. Let’s talk about how to spend the awkward period of changing from good friends to lovers.
1. Don’t deliberately distinguish the difference between friends and lovers
In fact, it is easy for two people who are too familiar to be together to cause embarrassing situations. In fact, there is no need to be too deliberate after you become lovers. To distinguish the difference between friends and lovers, it is good to feel good when we are together. The so-called love is not just passion or a large amount of hormone secretion. Sometimes a seemingly light feeling can go further. To take a step back, just get along as friends first, and then slowly add in intimate interactions, such as sending flowers, holding hands, etc., and slowly transition to a romantic relationship. Just let nature take its course.
2. Do some things that lovers do
In fact, it is more convenient to become a couple very cheaply. What lasts long just depends on whether you can open your heart. First of all, if you feel embarrassed, it means there is something wrong with your focus. Your current thinking is that you feel embarrassed only when you are scrupulous about certain points. In fact, have you ever thought that love has already arisen between you unconsciously? It's just that some reasons and concerns have not been expressed. Now that you have cut through the piece of paper and confirmed the relationship, you must cherish this relationship, pay seriously for the other person, and manage this relationship well. Start with care, care, understanding, humility, and companionship, and boldly do everything you want to do in love. There is no need to be embarrassed. You have to know that the person in front of you is your lover, cherish it!
3. Change the way you get along
It is normal to feel embarrassed when you change from good friends to lovers, but you The reason why we were able to become good friends before is that both parties actually have no bad feelings towards each other, and you also have a certain basis for getting along with each other. What makes you embarrassed may be the change of identity. When you were very familiar with each other in the past, even if there was some tacit ambiguity between the two of you, it was just ambiguity and never conducted openly. But now you suddenly become a man and a woman. My friends, I feel a little uncomfortable. The way we got along before doesn't seem to apply now, but it's not. How we got along before is the best for you now. Don't think so much. Just say what you want. Just do whatever you want together. You can chat like usual, hold hands and go out to play together. Occasionally call each other sweetly, and occasionally have a little sense of ritual. Slowly you will be able to have a very comfortable relationship as a couple.
In fact, the establishment of a relationship between a man and a woman means that they understand each other’s intentions, at least not at an ambiguous level. It means that you both accept each other, and then everything that follows will actually take its course.
