What are the skills for chatting up and chatting on WeChat?
WeChat is undoubtedly the social software we use most at the moment. With more users, there will naturally be more girls. So when we add When you are with a strange girl, how should you chat and strike up a conversation so that you can chase her?
I guess everyone is already familiar with the theoretical knowledge about chatting. Today the editor brings you a practical article Post, teach you how to use these chatting skills on WeChat.
1. Find the collusion between two people and establish a sense of comfort
Then let me first explain that collusion means the things two people do together, their experience, personality, or No matter if it's the simplest surname, just say it and the two of you will enter that comfortable state. Please see the screenshot below for details
Then I used my last name to make a simple conspiracy, and this happened with the girl. The feeling of comfort and flirtation not only compliments the other person, but also compliments oneself. All in all, this wave is not a loss. Next, the girl asked me why I woke up so early, and I told her directly and sincerely that I woke up because I had to pee. She said something she would only say after knowing her for a long time, giving her the illusion that we are already very familiar. Then the relationship between you will be taken to the next level (please remember the techniques in these two screenshots, one is collusion, the other is building comfort)
2. Find topics and Flirting
Then perhaps what worries the brothers the most is You won’t find topics to talk about when chatting with girls. In fact, it’s very simple here. Just use a simple question: What do you usually do to guide the girl to tell her interests and hobbies, and then extend from her interests and hobbies. As shown in the picture above, if the girl says she likes watching horror movies, then I can talk about it. Tell me what you think about horror movies However, this is not the purpose. The purpose is that I find more topics through this topic and extend it. I said that I am most afraid of the shadow left by watching horror movies, so the girl directly said that I will protect you. This is a big interest. Biao, actually at this time If the interest from the other party is not that great, then I will ask you what you are most afraid of. But here, her interest is very great, so I chose to flirt to upgrade the relationship. Women like this feeling of being flirted with very much. Yes, through this kind of chat, the girl wants to ask me to cook together (of course it’s not as simple as cooking) , hehe) So it can be seen that it is possible to invite. But I chose not to rush, because the expectations and relationship have not reached that stage, and what I want is for girls to take the initiative to ask me out, so I calmed down this time Next continue to look at the screenshots below. .
3. Let girls take the initiative to pursueYou make an appointment
So many brothers say how to guide Does a girl invest in your feelings or time? I will share with you a real and practical technique today.
, that is, when the mood is high and you suddenly withdraw from the conversation and deliberately do not reply to the other party's messages, then she will want to find you more and more (this trick is called the withdrawal method) Remember that only when a girl invests in you will she be inseparable from you and willing to continue chatting with you, so you can use this strategy when chatting in the future. If you don’t believe it, think about it in another person’s shoes. For example, you and the girl are chatting to a high level. It's the same feeling when a girl suddenly stops responding to you.