I was getting along well with a girl. I had entered the ambiguous period, and I felt like I was one step away from confirming the relationship. However, one day, she suddenly started to become cold. What was the reason for this?
Why did the ambiguous girl suddenly become cold?
1. Entered the friendship zone
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If an ambiguous girl’s attitude towards you declines rapidly, it is likely that you have fallen into her last choice. In this ambiguous relationship, you only remain ambiguous with the girl, but you cannot give her a sense of security, dependence and sexual impulse. Then once there are other competitors who can do the above three points.
Then this girl will naturally make the best choice among the ambiguous objects. When she establishes a prospective boyfriend among them, she will automatically keep a distance from other ambiguous objects, thus breaking other ambiguous objects into friendship. District, this woman's most rational and harmonious decision.
2. The sense of need is too strong
Many boys are often impulsive and impatient when faced with ambiguous relationships. After only being ambiguous for a few days, they began to express their feelings on a daily basis, creating a relationship atmosphere where "she has to be the one".
Of course, a girl will be very happy when she hears someone confessing to her, but when she calms down, she will feel great pressure. The reason is that she only has a 4-point affection for you, and she cannot bear your 8-point love.
Therefore, during the period of ambiguity, do not express your love, otherwise the other party may not like you that much.
3. Interfering too much in girls’ lives
You can play the role of a "quasi-boyfriend", but Never interfere with a girl's life by pretending to be a boyfriend.
Girls definitely don’t like a boy who is petty and overly ambitious, so “she can do whatever she likes and hang out with whoever she likes.” You must not complain about this girl at this time.
If you really can’t stand it, just shamelessly force the girl to take you with her. If she insists on not taking you to play, then you must also know how to put away your dignity in time and correct your position. After all, only boys who are relaxed and relaxed can win more favor from girls.
4. Caused cognitive bias
Regardless of men and women, 99% of love starts because of lust. Similarly, the end of ambiguity is likely to end from "cognitive bias".
In the imagination of girls, you on the other side of the screen may be a sunny-looking, clean and tidy boy, but when you post a bohemian selfie in your circle of friends, it is difficult for girls to Associate this image with the person you say goodnight to every day.
Good feelings start from a momentThe same good feeling that arises in a moment also disappears in an instant.
Therefore, during the ambiguous period, you should be cautious in posting on Moments, and try to show your sunny, handsome and high-value side as much as possible. Those negative images and complaints will only become the only reason to end the girl's favor.
5. Encountered a girl’s emotional taboo
A girl’s sudden coldness is probably due to something you did. Something or a certain sentence touches a girl's bottom line, which instantly triggers a strong resistance in the other party, and then creates a strong desire to escape.
For example, in the last relationship, this girl was greatly hurt because her ex-boyfriend was addicted to games, and when she was getting along with you, you also revealed that you have a strong obsession with games, then Once you touch a girl's emotional taboo, her affection for you will instantly fall to the bottom.
The ambiguous period is a critical period for establishing a relationship. If you can seize the opportunity, the two people will become a real couple. If not handled properly, they will fall into the friendship zone and the relationship will not advance but retreat. , girls gradually become indifferent. And the ambiguity period really shouldn't last too long. Since you have a mutual affection for each other, you must have the courage to ask each other out to meet and upgrade the relationship step by step.
A long-term ambiguity is the torture of two people. Since you like it, you should get rid of other competitors as soon as possible and actively pursue it. Don't wait for her to get tired before you take the initiative. If you think about upgrading the relationship at this time, it's already too late to make amends.
