Many boys tend to make a lot of mistakes when chasing girls, such as giving red envelopes, gifts, and greetings before the relationship is established. Even if they give sincerity to girls, they still fail to catch them. Today, the editor will explain to you the taboos of giving red envelopes and gifts when chasing girls? In fact, it’s not that you can’t give out red envelopes and gifts when chasing girls, but all your actions must have a reasonable basis. In fact, sending red envelopes and giving gifts when chasing girls is actually very particular.
1. Giving out red envelopes and gifts is not as good as treating them to a meal
As the saying goes, men are short-handed. Boys want to win the favor of girls by giving out red envelopes and gifts. This method is actually the most effective way. Not advisable, what you attract may not be the girls' liking for you, but the covetousness of the money-worshiping girls. Moreover, girls will just accept the red envelopes and gifts. It will not help your emotional immunity at all. It is better to use the money from red envelopes to buy gifts to treat girls to a meal.
Find a good time to ask the girl to go to her favorite restaurant for a delicious meal (of course you have to know the girl’s food preferences in advance During this period, you chat to increase your understanding of each other. After eating, you can go to a milk tea shop, watch a movie, or go for a walk in the park. In the process of these meetings and contacts, you can slowly promote your relationship. This relationship is much better than sending red envelopes and gifts.
2. You can send red envelopes and gifts on special days
When a girl celebrates her birthday, in addition to inviting her to dinner, you can also send her a birthday red envelope or buy her a birthday gift. Cake; on Valentine’s Day, all the couples and girls on the street are holding flowers sent by their boyfriends. Are you going to let the girls’ hands be empty? When you are dating a girl at this time, you can also prepare a bouquet of flowers for her in advance (depending on your financial situation); or if the girl agrees to be your girlfriend, you can also buy her a gift or send her a red envelope. Let giving red envelopes and gifts have special meanings, so that they can promote your relationship.
3. Don’t develop bad habits
In fact, the reason why we say it is taboo to give out red envelopes and gifts when chasing girls , because you are afraid that you are so willing to give when you are chasing a girl. If a girl really becomes your girlfriend, will you continue to give like this? Will a girl feel that you have changed your mind about her, that you have neglected her, that you don’t love her as much as before? Sure enough, what you don’t get is the best... (There are very few boys who can be truly consistent. (Less)
Therefore, it is taboo for boys to chase girls by giving them red envelopes and gifts. In fact, girls are very innocent at first, and some of her bad habits are really picked up by boys. Rather than letting your girlfriend think you've changed your mind later, it's better not to give her this habit in the first place.
Of course, you can send gifts or give red envelopes to a girl, but you need to use it as a reward or a tool to enhance your relationship. So sending a red envelope to a girl is not just as simple as pleasing her, you have to make this red envelope work. It should have value to avoid being a bitch to girls.
