Being single seems to be very free, and you can do whatever you want, but if you are single for a long time, you will inevitably become lonely and want to fall in love. At this time, you will find that not only is there no suitable person of the opposite sex around you, but even if there is someone you like, you are also afraid Get along with her. What should you do if you have been single for a long time and want to fall in love?
1. Cultivate interests and hobbies
Develop a hobby, such as sports, fitness, travel, etc. When you have a hobby, you look confident, sunny, and charming.
2. Go out for exercise and shopping
People who have been single for a long time often neglect body management, but girls will not like a boy who is too thin or too fat, so we must exercise , improve your physical fitness. The other thing is to go out more and go shopping more. The purpose is to learn about the latest trendy things, broaden your horizons, observe how other boys dress, keep up with the trend, and have a high chance of meeting beautiful and cute girls when shopping.
3. Take the initiative to create opportunities for contact with others
For example, set hard rules for yourself, go out to participate in social activities at least twice a month, and have at least one day outdoors every weekend Activity.
For another example, if you meet a stranger of the opposite sex, try chatting with her to practice your ability to chat with girls.
4. Have more contact with friends of the opposite sex
If you have little experience, then create more experience. If you have more friends of the opposite sex, won’t you get more experience?
When interacting with girls, even if you are hit, don’t be discouraged. You can ask Brother Chen to help you analyze and find the problem. Well, slowly we are making progress.
5. Don’t set limits on love
There is no perfect person. If it exists, it is the filter you put on her.
Many people who have been single for a long time are always unable to take that step because they are too rational and judge other people’s conditions. If 3 of the 10 standards are not met, they will not be considered.
In fact, this often results in missing the right person.
So, if you meet a girl you feel good about, if she can meet three or more of the qualities you like, you might as well try to get in touch with her. Try it boldly, don’t be afraid of making mistakes, maybe you will find new surprises.
6. Precipitate yourself
When we have nothing to do, we should read more books, participate in more social activities, and increase ourselves experience. Generally, those who attract girls' attention are those who are more connotative and speak well.
7. Expand your circle of friends
When we work and study, we often interact within a specific circle and rarely have contact with outsiders, which limits our social scope. What we have to do is to put down the game, communicate with more people, get to know more friends, and expand our circle of friends.
8. Blind date
Although many people reject blind date, now we have reached the point where we have to consider it. If you want to end being single, you can no longer rely on time, but take the initiative to find it yourself. So blind date is the best way. If two people like each other, give it a try. If you don’t like it, just try another one to save time.
