Many boys think that everything will be fine when they fall in love, but even if the relationship is confirmed, if they don't take care to maintain the relationship, they may still break up in the end. So how can couples chat to enhance their relationship?
1. Leave room for the other person’s imagination
Chatting with your girlfriend is not like talking about work. Reporting work according to the rules will be too boring! Couples need to give each other a push and pull space when chatting. For example:
When your girlfriend asks "What are you doing?" Actually, she doesn't want to know what you are doing. She just wants to talk to you and relieve work stress, or she doesn't say anything at all. If you answer quickly, "I'm going to watch TV," then your girlfriend can only reply, "Oh, okay, then you can continue watching TV and don't disturb you." If you haven't heard that your girlfriend is angry Then I can only hehe.
The correct way to answer a couple's chat is to answer your girlfriend's question in a hurry after you receive it, so that she can guess what you are doing now. Why don't you reply to my message? She will pay more attention to you. After a period of time, you tell her what you are doing, leaving her with a little suspense and letting her guess or bring up a topic for her. Create some topics and mysteries, and then guide her to continue to create some topics, so that she cares about you more and more, rather than letting her dominate the topics between you.
2. Open chat
Many boys complain that they chat with their girlfriends all the time. Even though he is dead, I don’t know who stopped the chat topic. Anyway, the conversation cannot be continued. The crux of the problem is that your chat is not open-ended. Once the chat is over, there will be nothing to talk about. If you start the topic again, the conversation will still end, and you will fall into an infinite loop, and the girl will have no desire to continue chatting with you. We want our chat to be attractive, so when we speak, we don't use closed sentences. For example:
You were just having dinner with friends, and your girlfriend at the time sent a message asking, "Have you gone home? How was the restaurant today?" If you directly answer, "I'm home. , not bad." Then your girlfriend probably has no desire to continue chatting with you. At this time, you may still feel that your girlfriend doesn't understand the style, so why don't you continue to ask.
The correct way to answer a couple chat is, "I think the taste is okay. Maybe my expectations are too high, but their dishes are very unique. We can try it another day." Pique your girlfriend's interest and she will continue chatting with you. If you've already talked about a topic you're not familiar with, you can also use an open answer to guide her into expressing her opinion. For example, you could say something like, "I want to hear your thoughts." "I actuallyI don’t quite understand, but it’s interesting to hear you say it.” This will give your girlfriend a sense of accomplishment and a strong desire to talk to you.
p>3. Learn to end chats
No matter how interesting the chat is and how much you talk about it, the chat will always end. After all, everyone’s life is not just about chatting, but also about chatting. There are many other colorful lives, and maybe chatting for a long time will make her feel bored, which is not good. So how should a couple end the chat topic? How to make her feel special every time she chats with you. Interesting, and there is a feeling that the chat is not finished yet? For example, "It's too late today, I will invite you to that place to experience it another day." Even if the chat ends, there will be a foreshadowing for the next chat.
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