Many people are confused about marriage. They don’t know when the time is right to get married. So today I will share my opinions on the topic of how two people can get married. If it meets If it is half, then you can prepare for the marriage with peace of mind.
One: Be willing to become a better version of yourself for the other person
A good relationship or a good marriage , must be achieved by each other. Two people have a common goal and are willing to become better people for each other. Just like when I was in school, I worked hard to catch up with that male classmate who had excellent grades and let her discover myself.
Two: Take into account the feelings of the other party when quarreling, be able to control your own temper and take the initiative to make peace
When two people are together, it is inevitable that they will have different opinions and quarrel. In fact, this is not terrible. This is the situation where you want to have a cold war because you are afraid of encountering problems. If she controls her emotions for you and takes the initiative to reconcile, it shows that she cares about you.
Three: Take a long journey together, and still love each other deeply after coming back
It is said that whether love is suitable or not will be clear once you go on a trip, because during the trip, you will encounter all kinds of things. The unknown situation, whether it is physical strength or temper, is a test. It is like daily necessities after marriage. The road is not only the scenery, but also the bonds.
If you can understand each other, help each other, and think from each other's perspective, then the relationship between you will rise to a new level.
Four: We have experienced the troughs of each other's lives together, and we will get through it together no matter how difficult it is
The sunny days we have walked together, the ups and downs we have experienced together, are all because of you. The most precious memory in life. If you are by each other's side during the most difficult moments in life, then there will be no difficulties that cannot be overcome in the future.
Five: In front of the other person, there is no need to pretend to be relaxed and true to yourself
If you really love her, and she really loves you, then you don’t need to do it when you get along with her. Deliberate formality and pretense. Because she knows she loves you just for who you are.
Six: In order to see each other, don’t be afraid of high mountains and long roads
This point mainly talks about long-distance relationships Yes, those who survive long-distance relationships can basically get married.
Seven: Solve problems together instead of blaming each other
After two people have been together for a long time, the novelty will inevitably fade away, and after the relationship becomes dull, the flow will flow. After encountering something, the first thing to think about is to communicate rationally and face and solve it together instead of blaming each other.
Eight: Have common goals and similar views, and work together for the future
Only two people with similar or identical views can have the same goals.Only by supporting each other in the direction of progress can we go further. No matter what your current economic conditions are, as long as you are willing to work together, sooner or later the unknown will become the known.
Nine: Be filial to each other’s parents and know each other’s true roots
There is a kind of couple who have been together for a long time and have already met their parents, and their relatives and friends also know about it. . You know each other well and have already treated your parents as your own. They may not push you to get married because they are sure that you are already a family.
Ten: Be loyal to each other
Put this point at the end, because this point is the principle. To judge whether a person truly loves you, it depends on whether she is willing to make her friend circle cleaner for you. She will have no unclear friends of the opposite sex, respect you at all times, and care about your thoughts.
The above is all about how two people can get married. Of course, I sincerely hope that you can meet the right person.
