Even if you are a rich, handsome man, if your mentality is not good when chasing girls and you often engage in behaviors that lower your own value, it will still be difficult for you to get out of singles. Below, I will give you some popular science about the taboos of boys chasing girls. These behaviors are really low.
1. Like to complain
For some people, failure is not that they are too bad; There are too many objective reasons. The lack of ability is not because you don’t work hard enough, but because reality doesn’t allow it. In this kind of mentality, people will become very fond of complaining, even complaining about trivial matters.
For example, when I stepped on dog poop when I went out, or my shoes were wet by a water sprinkler, I immediately "shared" these little things with the girls and complained about my bad luck;
My colleague fell into the trap again today. He gave you a pack of biscuits and gave you work. After get off work, he picked up his mobile phone and complained to girls that he was being treated unfairly.
However... tell her that you are unlucky, do you think girls will sympathize with you? Your colleagues are such a thief, will girls help you fight against others?
This is definitely impossible. .
Complaining about this kind of behavior will not bring you any beneficial benefits. It will only let others see that you are exuding negative energy. Especially when interacting with girls, if you like to complain, the girls will think that you are always unlucky and have trouble. Do you think girls have the guts to like a bad guy who has everything going wrong?
2. Pay too much attention to girls’ news
For example, in those like parties, a girl posts a new circle of friends and promises to give her likes and comments within 5 minutes. Or if you find her out to play, send a message to ask her where she went today.
I believe that there are definitely not a few boys who have done this kind of thing. When they like a girl, some people will subconsciously pay attention to her words and deeds. But these behaviors give girls the feeling that you are really idle, and you only stare at her every day when you have nothing to do.
You must know that high-value people’s lives are filled with career and social interaction, and they are generally busy. Being idle and panicking means having nothing to do, which is a sign of low value.
How can a busy person have time to stare at her updates every day? If you let a girl find out that you have been paying attention to her, the girl will subconsciously classify you into the ranks of idle losers.
3. Listen to the wind and rain
To put it simply, when you hear some clues, you will roar without thinking. Prepare to take action. This is a mistake many novices in love make.
A brother heard from his goddess’s friend: “She likes cats.” So he bought a beautiful cat for her, and the result was thatGoddess Guo was filled with horror after receiving the cat...
Why? It turns out that although this girl likes to pet cats, she really hates keeping cats. Raising a cat not only requires you to be a poop scavenger, but you also have to endure cat hair all over the house. Moreover, this girl is mysophobic. Cats like to get into people's beds. This behavior makes her very disgusted. Anyway, most of her friends have cats. She can pet the cats for free and doesn’t have to be a poop scavenger. What a perfect thing. Why should she raise them by herself?
So although she likes cats, she hates raising them. Cat, when a boy does this, he is flattering the horse's hooves.
Blindly giving away things while blindly trying to please, often makes girls laugh and cry. It makes them extremely annoyed and makes them appear to have low IQ and EQ. In the eyes of girls, this is also extremely low-spirited behavior.
There is no rush in understanding girls’ interests and hobbies. This is a process of slow exploration. The information you observe from her friends and circle of friends should be mutually confirmed and summarized based on the things you usually chat with her. When the time is right, you can also ask her directly. You can't make blind conclusions after hearing a little bit of information.
