If a girl meets you enthusiastically, then the boy will definitely think that this girl will be very interesting in the future. After all, no matter how good the chat is, it will not feel as real as when meeting directly. But I didn't expect that girls would become cold towards you when you don't meet. So what happens to girls who are enthusiastic when you meet but are cold when you meet?
1. Girls are hanging on to you
If a girl is cold in WeChat chat, it means that she thinks this relationship is not worth spending too much time, but the girl is willing to come out, and she is still there when we meet. There are two reasons for showing more enthusiasm:
1. Girls kill time.
2. Girls are not sure whether you are suitable and want to continue to observe.
Her enthusiasm when meeting and coldness when not meeting are a balancing strategy. In order to maintain a distant distance from you, you will not be able to Confirm her thoughts. It is not necessarily to observe whether you are worthy of dating, but it may also be to observe the way a man pursues a woman and how he should interact with her, so as to practice her social experience and skills in dealing with others, so as to prepare her for meeting true love in the future.
This situation can actually be seen. For example, if you pay unilaterally, like to kill time, and take advantage of a girl, it feels good to experience the feeling of being chased. Having someone chase you is a recognition of your feminine charm. Girls still quite like this feeling.
If you are not sure whether a girl is like this and want to confirm it, it is definitely not possible to ask directly. Girls generally will not tell the truth. You should make more frequent dates like this. After six or seven dates, you can try to hold hands. No matter how nice a girl's words are, her body is the most honest. If she doesn't let you touch her, she won't let you touch her in the future. She's obviously hanging on. you.
2. Girls don’t like chatting on WeChat
Some girls do prefer face-to-face communication instead of chatting on WeChat because she feels that chatting on WeChat takes too much time and she is busy at work. When I get home from get off work, I want to take a break and do the things I like, so I seem to be indifferent to you, but in fact, girls don’t want to talk to you. Otherwise, she will definitely not come out if you ask her out. If she is only prepared to treat you as a friend, she will keep her distance.
@ Lemon: I am a woman. I used to think that I was not good at face-to-face chatting. I like the kind of WeChat chat that allows me to have a thinking process. but! ! Now I feel that chatting on WeChat is really tiring. When the other party brings up a topic that I don’t know how to answer, I have to spend a lot of brain cells to continue the topic. If I don’t answer seriously, the other party may feel that I am too perfunctory, which is really tiring. Tired brain. In addition, I have to type and read messages, which makes my hands and eyes tired (the 60-second voice square is also quite tiring...), so I can't chat on WeChat without chatting on WeChat. How nice it is to just say it when you meet, without having to think about it, and make eye contact and so on! ! !
Girls who are enthusiastic but not cold when meeting each other mainly fall into the above two situations. I hope you can distinguish them carefully so as not to be left alone.
